A little kindness

In any kind of situation, we have a choice of how to react. When things are tense, and hurried, stop and show a little kindness. An encouraging word, a helpful gesture, an offer of assistance or understanding can go a long way to turn things around.

It is easy to complain when things aren't going right. It is easy to criticize everyone and everything. But where does that get you? Perhaps a little kindness and understanding would help to change the situation. It certainly won't hurt.

People will respond to kindness. If we want someone on our side, if we want to persuade someone to see our point of view, one of the best ways is to approach them with sincere kindness and caring. It can diffuse a tense situation. It can help us to build rapport. And it must be sincere. It must come from the heart.

Try a little kindness, with no expectations of anything in return. It will improve our outlook, our effectiveness, and it might even lower our blood pressure!

Put some kindness into the world and we will definitely like what the world gives back.

友善

无论在认何情况下,我们可以选择如何去反应或互动。如果在紧张忙碌的状况下我们可以停下脚步,并显出一点爱心、说些令人鼓舞的话,这些举动可能会让整起事物得以扭转局势。

其实我们人类一般都有一个通病,那就是在问题出状况时,很容易抱怨,抱怨事情的不对,抱怨事迹不公平等。批评报怨是件容易且简单的事,但是我们可否想过,这些举止能够给我们带来什么结果?而我们曾否想过去利用批评报怨的时间来反省并利用善良的心态去理解事情的由来和结果呢?这也许有助于让事情在没有受到伤害的情况下,将局面转劣成优。

人们都希望得到友善的理解和同情。如果我们希望有人在我们身边,以同理心来接受及认同我们的看法的话,最好的方式就是以真实、真诚及善良的心去表达,去关怀, 去付出. 这样可以让紧张危急的局势弥漫下来。

如果我们希望有人在我们身边,如果我们想说服他人,让他人以我们的角度来看, 一个最好的方法是向他们提供真诚的爱心和关怀, 它可以帮助我们建立良好的人际关系,但是这些举动必须是真诚的, 它也必须是发自内心的.

多加一点爱心,并没有期望任何回报.这种善举将改善我们的视野, 我们的效益, 甚至有可能降低我们的血压!

把我们的爱心融入世界!世界必定用爱心来呵护我们!

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