Kindness

Kindness is one of the most powerful tools available to us. Kindness can positively transform our world in a way that nothing else can.

When our heart is filled with kindness, our thoughts and actions are driven by a positive, creative force. Instead of being needlessly distracted by anger, envy or despair, our eyes are more fully open to the many valuable possibilities.

Act with kindness toward others. We'll create an atmosphere of understanding and cooperation in which amazing things can be accomplished.

Be kind to ourselves. We'll make it possible to clearly focus our considerable creative energy on achieving the highest and best of our dreams.

Choose to act with kindness, and we free ourselves from the heavy burden of negativity. Persist in our kindness, and we rise to higher and higher levels of true, meaningful accomplishment.

Kindness transforms profoundly and spreads quickly. Let kindness freely flow from us, and it will surely change our world.

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Being Thankful and Appreciative

Taking the time to express appreciation is one of the most positive things we can do. It's a big booster for the other person -- people love to know that they're being appreciated. It's a great feeling for you, too. And there's no better way to encourage people to do their best, than to let them know you appreciate what they're doing.

Beyond showing appreciation for other people, it's important to cultivate a general attitude of thankfulness. Stop and think about all the good things in your life and be thankful for them. Too often we focus on our problems and shortcomings, and that only gives them that much more control over our lives. Being thankful for the positive things in our lives helps us to focus on possibilities for improvement.

Think of someone to whom you've never before expressed appreciation and make it a point to let them know you're thankful for what they're doing. Make a habit of being thankful and appreciative for the positive things in your life. When you nurture and encourage the good things instead of dwelling on the problems, your life will be full of joy.

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Be Happy

One of the greatest causes of unhappiness is letting other people tell you what will make you happy. For true happiness is not something you must chase in a particular way.

Happiness is yours when you choose it. Yes, it really is as simple as that.

When you let go of the notion that this thing or that thing will make you happy, something truly amazing happens. You are suddenly free to be happy without condition.

The good things you associate with happiness are not things that will cause you to be happy. Quite to the contrary, they are things that will come about once you allow yourself to be happy.

Putting conditions on your happiness keeps happiness at a distance away from you. Drop the conditions, and happiness is free to flow into your life.

Stop trying to figure out what it means to be happy or what will cause you to be happy. Simply choose to be happy, and you'll know exactly what it means.

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Explore

Many great discoveries have been made just because people were curious enough to pursue them. The world can be changed by someone who asks what if or why not, or who sets out to see what's over the horizon.

When we explore something new, we bring some of our best qualities to the effort. Exploration is an act of faith, of confidence, courage, optimism, discipline and self reliance. Exploration opens our mind, focuses our attention and brings with it the possibility of valuable discovery.

Exploration helps us to more fully appreciate and utilize the resources available to us, while at the same time opening up grand new vistas and possibilities.

Exploration is a great way to strengthen our confidence. The more experience we have with new ideas, new places, new techniques, and new perspectives, the more comfortable we'll become in all kinds of situations.

When was the last time we explored something new, just for the sake of exploration? There's no better way to get ourselves positively, enthusiastically and productively focused.

Engage in a little exploration today and see how truly alive it makes us feel.

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Beauty is....

There's no need to force it, or strive for it, take it, possess it or consume it.

Beauty is here when you open yourself to it. Beauty is here when you see it, appreciate it, live and love and express it.


In the grand experiences and in the small moments, beauty is. Beauty touches something within you that words can never adequately describe and the mind can never fully explain.


Remember often to allow life's beauty to touch you, to fill you. And you will become more creative, effective, peaceful and purposeful.


Beauty is, here and now and anytime you choose to live it. Though there is often much trouble and sorrow in life, there is always more beauty to be lived.

Beauty is, and the more you live it the more abundant beauty becomes. Let life's beauty shine brightly through you.



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善用柔软式,大家都好过

曾经有人告诉我:他曾经因为有[你懂吗?]的口头禅,而被视为是骄傲的人,在与人沟通交谈时也常常因为这种原因而产生隔阂。

之后,我与他分享,希望他可以把你懂吗?改为你说呢?果然,这改变了人民对他的看法和评价。事实上,在沟通很重要的是语气,只要语气柔和,语言沟通的效果就会大不相同。

其中主要道理就在于"你懂吗?"语气生硬,有种高高在上,盛气凌人的感觉,你说呢?虽然语义差不多,但是语气委婉,显得亲切礼貌,容易使双方的交谈产生情感上的共鸣,所以效果就不同了。

在我们的生活当中,生活是好是坏取决于我们用的方式。同样一句不好听的话,不管是意见或不满意,用《柔和式》的话法,绝对可以让人家感觉不到敌意。

反之,同样一句好话,如果方式是硬的,迎来的结果肯定是不好的。因此,学会软式的说话方式,我们肯定可以在世界上寸步都能行,如果用错方式,肯定是寸步难行。

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荣耀徐克成教授

教授成就不得了,风行全球太棒了。

巨瘤救主动民心,爱心奉献感人心。

博爱精神显奇迹,全球布满成功迹。

救人救己感动天,换来生命无数天。

继续洒爱到世间,以让幸福满人间。

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